The twinkly lights of a casino, the jingle of slot machines and the buzz of the crowd – gambling is an exciting activity for many people. But, if you can’t control the urge to gamble and it is taking away from your life and relationships, it’s time to seek help. Problem gambling can have a devastating impact on health, employment and family life. In extreme cases, it can lead to homelessness and even suicide. It can also be extremely expensive and deplete financial resources. For some people, the compulsion to gamble can become an addiction, and they will keep returning to the games in the hope of a ‘big win’.
In this article we look at the different types of gambling, the dangers and how to break the cycle. We also look at the different treatments available and the research behind them. Finally, we talk to people who have battled their own gambling addictions to get their lives back on track.
Gambling is the wagering of something of value on an event that is purely random with the intention of winning something else of value. Examples include betting on a football match or scratchcard and placing a bet on a horse race. These activities can be conducted in a number of ways, including online or at bricks and mortar casinos. It is important to understand the difference between gambling and insurance, as some individuals confuse these two activities. Insurance is not a form of gambling because the risk is transferred to the insurer, not the individual.
It is estimated that 2.5 million U.S adults (1%) meet the criteria for a severe gambling disorder. Another 5-8 million (2-3%) have mild or moderate gambling problems. People with a gambling disorder are more likely to have depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts than those without the condition. It is also believed that they have a higher rate of substance abuse and have more difficulty with managing finances, work and relationships.
Psychiatrists are trained to help people overcome the urge to gamble, but it can be difficult. Some people find that it helps to talk about their problem with friends and family, or join a support group like Gamblers Anonymous. Others find that it helps to exercise, take up a new hobby or learn relaxation techniques. Having a clear plan for how you will spend your money can help reduce the chances of impulsive gambling. This could involve putting your gambling funds in separate envelopes for each day of the week so that you are less likely to overspend.
The key to stopping gambling is making a decision that you won’t do it. You can also ask for help by contacting a gambling helpline or self-help groups for families like Gam-Anon. It is also important to recognise that gambling can be a trigger for depression and anxiety, so try to avoid it if you are feeling low. You can also postpone your gambling until you feel better.